when we were newly married, my wife had a girls' night with her friends. one of them requested me, like a loaner

Posted on September 24, 2026 at 12:13:03 PM by Nikos

literally "can I borrow Nick rq for 2-3 weeks, just for fucking"

this was and still is a good friend so somehow it went over fine. I don't think my wife minded, she knew this girl liked me for a while and she was very upfront and polite about it rather than trying to seduce me.

the only other story I have like that I have told here before, the ex who emailed me a long, explicit Please Take Me Back thing after my son was born.

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I apparently live a very sheltered life… - By Craig September 24, 2026 at 11:57:53 AM
- I have a female friend, her husband fucked her brother's wife...talk about fucking up a family* - By detroitbry September 24, 2026 at 12:20:27 PM
  - I need another flow chart* - By Rich September 24, 2026 at 12:22:48 PM
- when we were newly married, my wife had a girls' night with her friends. one of them requested me, like a loaner - By Nikos September 24, 2026 at 12:13:03 PM
  - I can't remember. Did you email the ex back?* - By Rich September 24, 2026 at 12:17:00 PM
    - yes, politely. I put a Go Blue! at the end * - By Nikos September 24, 2026 at 12:22:28 PM
- There are probably more bears and coyotes near you than humans* - By Rich September 24, 2026 at 12:10:28 PM
  - Heh. Coyotes, perhaps. No bears in Kansas to my knowledge.*** - By Craig September 24, 2026 at 12:12:14 PM
- Same, but will suggest “for my age” does a lot of heavy lifting…. - By ajs September 24, 2026 at 12:08:42 PM
- Same. I have one friend who got handsy with a colleague, came clean, ended up losing his job and his marriage. It was shocking. Nothing besides that.* - By doctor_klopek September 24, 2026 at 12:06:05 PM
- Same here. My wife and I celebrated our 31st wedding anniversary yesterday. - By apblue September 24, 2026 at 12:01:32 PM
  - A lot of the cheating I am aware of happened to connections in kid sports/activities FWIW.* - By MasterBates September 24, 2026 at 12:03:48 PM
    - True. On the pros & cons lists, chalk that up to an advantage of living in and our kids being in sports in Allen Park for 20 years. Everyone knows everyone’s business there. Thats some small town bullshit. There are very few secrets.* - By apblue September 24, 2026 at 12:13:54 PM
- At this age, it is seldom about looks. More about confidence/personality unless you are obese.* - By MasterBates September 24, 2026 at 12:01:07 PM
- Re: I apparently live a very sheltered life… - By ftb September 24, 2026 at 11:58:43 AM

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when we were newly married, my wife had a girls' night with her friends. one of them requested me, like a loaner