My dad just passed and everyone is asleep but me
Posted on August 19, 2026 at 01:41:27 AM by plug
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(edited August 19, 2026 at 03:27:57 AM)
I had a feeling about tonight. Wanted to say a few last words knowing it was too late. He was a complicated man. Wickedly intelligent, moderately corrupt. A great father for my first 16 years, then mostly a ghost. Barely knew my kids. We had always suspected something terrible in his childhood home. Too many bad outcomes. He confirmed the worst of our concerns to me last year after saying goodbye to my mom. The man, flaws and challenges and all, made a better home for his kids than he had, and made them such that they made better homes for their kids. Thatโs a successful life.
Weโve lost three of our parents in a year. Never saw this coming.
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My dad just passed and everyone is asleep but me
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- By plug
August 19, 2026 at 01:41:27 AM
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Condolences*
- By maestro
September 3, 2026 at 04:23:03 PM
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My condolences, Most of us just try to do the best we can...
- By FleetwoodDiner
August 19, 2026 at 11:31:52 AM
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Sorry, plug. Condolences.*
- By Cap
August 19, 2026 at 11:11:04 AM
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Very sorry. *
- By jhamm
August 19, 2026 at 10:53:55 AM
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Sorry for your loss*
- By MichMatty
August 19, 2026 at 10:46:45 AM
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Very sorry, Plug. What a sad post to read. Thoughts with you and your family.*
- By BigLake
August 19, 2026 at 10:27:23 AM
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Sorry for your loss plug. *
- By django
August 19, 2026 at 09:55:59 AM
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My deepest condolences. I lost my Dad 15 years ago. I miss him everyday.
- By jukebox
August 19, 2026 at 09:35:37 AM
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So sorry to hear, hope youโre doing okay *
- By WOK
August 19, 2026 at 09:26:21 AM
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Sorry to hear, it's always tough.*
- By Michigan6
August 19, 2026 at 09:19:45 AM
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so sorry plug*
- By ajs
August 19, 2026 at 09:15:44 AM
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Condolences.*
- By MasterBates
August 19, 2026 at 09:15:34 AM
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Oh man, really sorry plug.*
- By kccambo
August 19, 2026 at 09:08:46 AM
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Sorry to hear this plug. Sounds like you were able to make your peace with tough situation. That's the best we can do**
- By xcheck
August 19, 2026 at 09:02:03 AM
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Sorry plug. Take care*
- By LewisBullox
August 19, 2026 at 08:58:38 AM
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Condolences, Plug. Peace to you and your family.*
- By GoBrew
August 19, 2026 at 08:54:06 AM
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Condolences, plug *
- By BBA
August 19, 2026 at 08:46:24 AM
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Really sorry to hear this, plug. Condolences. (nfm)
- By WolvBlue
August 19, 2026 at 08:30:38 AM
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Ugh...sorry Plug*
- By TBW
August 19, 2026 at 08:29:50 AM
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Sorry for your loss......*
- By jonpc
August 19, 2026 at 08:23:34 AM
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I am very sorry....
- By Rich
August 19, 2026 at 08:14:23 AM
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Condolences. *
- By Falco
August 19, 2026 at 08:00:52 AM
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Very sorry for your loss.**
- By jBdub
August 19, 2026 at 07:58:12 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss.*
- By Gaius Octavius
August 19, 2026 at 07:48:51 AM
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So sorry, Plug***
- By Craig
August 19, 2026 at 07:37:53 AM
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sorry my man*
- By tem
August 19, 2026 at 07:33:12 AM
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Sorry to hear. *
- By crumbs
August 19, 2026 at 07:29:14 AM
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Very sorry for your loss. Thoughts to you and your family*
- By Cincywolve
August 19, 2026 at 07:17:32 AM
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Very sorry for your loss. Sounds complicated but you seem to be in a good place of understanding and peace with who he was. Take care of yourself*
- By MFlyer
August 19, 2026 at 07:00:03 AM
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Very sorry for your loss*
- By Supergoat
August 19, 2026 at 06:58:56 AM
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Sorry plug.*
- By dugfresh
August 19, 2026 at 06:34:43 AM
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So sorry for your loss. ๐๐
- By AuntLilly
August 19, 2026 at 06:25:12 AM
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condolences **
- By kal
August 19, 2026 at 06:20:52 AM
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Wow. So sorry. In some ways having such a complicated legacy makes grief even more difficult to sort out. Hope you and your family all find peace. *
- By WestSideBlue
August 19, 2026 at 05:04:18 AM
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Condolences to you and your family"
- By el fuego
August 19, 2026 at 04:30:44 AM
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So very sorry Plug *
- By Spirit
August 19, 2026 at 04:14:51 AM
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Beautiful tribute, plug.*
- By Rags
August 19, 2026 at 04:10:48 AM
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Bummer - sorry for your loss*
- By syrfan
August 19, 2026 at 03:29:30 AM
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thanks to the late night Victors. What a great community. *
- By plug
August 19, 2026 at 03:23:17 AM
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Sorry for your loss Plug. What you said was incredibly well written and powerful. Let us know if you need anything.*
- By gbmcq
August 19, 2026 at 02:59:19 AM
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Oh Man, I am sorry to hear that. We all have flaws, but I agree that a successful life is measured by the affect that life has on those around them*
- By Pal
August 19, 2026 at 02:33:14 AM
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Ah fuck man. I'm so sorry. Whatever else he was, he helped raise a fucking awesome human being who's producing other fucking awesome human beings. I'm so sorry buddy.*
- By jjwalker
August 19, 2026 at 02:25:54 AM
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Looikng exhale
- By Alpo
August 19, 2026 at 02:06:33 AM
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Very sorry plug*
- By brick
August 19, 2026 at 01:54:41 AM
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Very sorry to hear this. That is a successful life, hiccups and all.**
- By Bruce
August 19, 2026 at 01:53:03 AM
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