I too adjusted behavior because of this board around taking dumps at work

Posted on August 20, 2026 at 09:53:50 AM by plug

I now only use the handicap accessible stall when the other is full even though I know there are no employees using wheel chairs or walkers. But there are people in handicap spots who, after reading the board, I realized might need that extra space to navigate. It’s a minor change that I hadn’t considered until it came up here.

I also have to enforce parking policy at work for whatever reason. We had people without stickers parking in handicap spaces, daily. I knew a few of them. Overweight but not handicapped. I wrote a policy, made a warning sticker that security placed on their windshields. Problem solved. Sometimes people do need nudges. One woman is severely overweight and I suspect the spot helps her. But she needs to get the placard. That’s why they’re made.

This is all fair and right. What bothers me is citizen policing. Like, you have no fucking idea what is going on in their life. I was happy we were able to fix things in a simple way. Not by shaming. I suspect her weight is causing real issues and I can’t just say, fuck that. I just can’t. Even if 9 of 10 abusers are assholes, that 10th story could be soul crushing. I never, never want to be that guy who made someone roll out a an awful tear filled story. Especially when doing something that has 0.0 impact on my life.

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My last word on scooters and wheelchairs and whatnot... - By jjwalker August 20, 2026 at 01:04:34 AM
- I too adjusted behavior because of this board around taking dumps at work - By plug August 20, 2026 at 09:53:50 AM
- My first word wading in to this topic. - By GoBrew August 20, 2026 at 07:49:06 AM
  - TAKE A STAND!—-Right Margin Guy* - By crumbs August 20, 2026 at 08:38:30 AM
- good post - By Arctic August 20, 2026 at 01:22:57 AM
  - You just said yesterday that providing "the lame" with scooters that impacts the ableds experience is "insane"! - By jjwalker August 20, 2026 at 01:32:20 AM
    - I was using the lame like lazy, as in those unwilling to walk, rather than the medically disabled - By Arctic August 20, 2026 at 01:41:14 AM
      - So you're stupid and a dick. That's not the definition. "Lame" has been long used to describe the (truly!) disabled, often in a derogatory fashion.... - By jjwalker August 20, 2026 at 01:53:56 AM
        
        I have no clue if anyone I meet is disabled or faking it. Nor would I ask. The truly disabled are far more disadvantaged by the mass of scammers than anyone else. Still we shouldn't insulate terrible people from well-deserved criticism for fear of offending the handicapped - By Arctic August 20, 2026 at 02:23:28 AM
        
        Jesus fucking christ, are you capable of learning anything? At the very least, 86 your misuse of the word "lame"... - By jjwalker August 20, 2026 at 03:03:27 AM
        
        Yes, in my mind it is undeniably absurd that a multi billion dollar opperation like Disney cannot manage its accessibility systems or planning effectively without creating a setup that invites mass abuse, ultimately degrading the experience for everyone involved—more so those with genuine needs - By Arctic August 20, 2026 at 03:20:56 AM
        
        What do you propose? All the money in the world can't create a suedeish "real or fake" test. It's almost like this issue is very complicated, and shouldn't be made overly simplistic by a guy too dumb to know the definition of the words he uses.* - By jjwalker August 20, 2026 at 03:24:19 AM
        
        This is like arguing with a woke DSA pedant. Instead of addressing how system abuse hurts people who actually need access, you hyper-fixate on vocabulary* - By Arctic August 20, 2026 at 03:38:06 AM
        
        I'll acknowledge that you worked so, so hard not to learn a damned thing. It's really impressive. - By jjwalker August 20, 2026 at 03:40:40 AM
        
        I know this board self polices and you are both long termers that know that, but can you watch the tone a little? - By Rich August 20, 2026 at 10:17:37 AM
        
        Suede, you see what I'm saying now? ^^^^^^^^^* - By jjwalker August 20, 2026 at 02:05:12 AM
        
        No, I don’t see what you’re saying because your drunken ramblings are impossible to parse. You should not drink alcohol. (nm) - By suede August 20, 2026 at 05:14:17 AM

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I too adjusted behavior because of this board around taking dumps at work